As I started writing this reflection, my attention was captured by a young couple - seemingly without many material possessions, perhaps even homeless - walking through the parking lot of my local parish. Despite their difficult circumstances, they seemed incredibly happy, exchanging smiles and conversing as they made their way through the lot. Watching from my vantage point on the second floor, I saw the young man bend down to pick a simple yellow daffodil from the rectory's side yard, and then offer it to the young woman. In an instant, her face lit up, and with obvious affection, she hugged him and planted a kiss on his cheek. The two then held hands and continued to walk down the sidewalk and into the low-income neighborhood across from our parish.
Watching all this from my bedroom window, the sight warmed my heart and brought a joyful smile to my face. The simple daffodil had an immense impact on the Sunday afternoon of these two young adults, and witnessing their interaction only deepened my thoughts about my dear friend, mentor, and teacher, the late Dr. Edward Kaczuk.
Today marks one year since I received the heart-wrenching news of Dr. Kaczuk's passing, or as his students lovingly referred to him, Dr. K. His warm smile and unwavering belief in the goodness of others left an indelible mark on countless people. Dr. Kaczuk found delight in life's simple joys, much like the bright yellow daffodil. A dedicated liturgist he poured over 30 years of passion into his role as music director and professor at the Center for Pastoral Leadership - Borromeo College Seminary and St. Mary Seminary and Graduate School of Theology; where our paths crossed. I was blessed for five remarkable years to work under the guidance Dr. Kaczuk and I learned so much that I know use in my daily life as a deacon.
I will forever hold dear Ed's radiant smile and the countless memories we shared through our connection. The stories of his annual journeys to Honduras with college seminarians, providing aid to the most marginalized communities in the Caribbean country, will always remain etched in my heart. Planning the sacred ceremonies with Dr. K was truly extraordinary, especially the unforgettable Eucharistic Devotions Weekend where he entrusted me with the role of cantor. With his guidance on the organ, I felt a profound sense of peace while singing in front of the entire seminary community. Even now, whenever I hear the opening notes of "The God of All Grace" by Ricky Manalo, my thoughts instinctively turn to my dear mentor and friend, Dr. Kaczuk. (From the moment Dr. K introduced this song to me, I fell in love with it, so much so that we even used it for my ordination as a deacon.) While Ed was always prepared with a witty remark or something to make you laugh, he also knew when to adopt a solemn demeanor.
Dr. K took great pride in his work, and his devotion to the Lord filled him with even greater pride. He devoted his life to aiding others on their path to God, particularly through the medium of music. He was an innate educator, a man who derived immense joy from imparting his wisdom and convictions to others. Outside of work Dr. K loved to spend time with his wife and family. An avid bicyclist he found great peace in riding his bike and spending time outside. On several occasion we shared stories of some of our favorite biking spots and I loved to show him pictures of my bicycle trip to Italy and Ireland before I entered seminary.
I could talk endlessly about Ed. He was an incredible teacher, musician, mentor, and friend! It's difficult for me to comprehend that a whole year has passed since our seminary community, the Catholic Diocese of Cleveland, and the Universal Church lost someone who embodied the true essence of Christianity!
Until we meet again Dr. K, may God hold you in the palm of his hand.
Peace,
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